Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Well, That's Over


The waiting is the hardest part.
He's home. This is the post in which I expected to say, "Everything is wonderful, we are just enjoying being together, good food, good wine, blahblahblah".  And it IS wonderful to have him home, but I can see that there will be a recovery period. Right now, mostly all we are doing is sleeping. I have a year of missed sleep to catch up on and he has jetlag and I'm sure a bit of PTSD. I've never slept so much in my life. I know he wants to talk about the things that happened over there, but I've asked him to wait a few more days until the ground we are on stops quaking. He keeps trying to lure me outside to the sunshine, but I still feel happiest in my cave for now.

The kids, of course, are thrilled to have their dad back, but it's also business as usual for them. Middle School is very dramatic, and soandso likes Olivia but he's a jerk and whatshername said Grace has a crush on this other boy, but they ARE JUST FRIENDS.

The dog is happily following Mitch around everywhere, but he is still traumatized by Jack's disappearance and spends a portion of every day walking in and out of his bedroom, whining. Okay, I do it too. So sue me.

In the next few weeks we will be packing out and headed to the States for our required home leave. I am in disbelief that the year is actually over. I would like to say that we thrived, but for now it's enough to just say we survived and leave it at that. Also, why does he keep using my bathroom?


4 comments:

Donna said...

Oh honey you did it. Those first days back are inexplicably strange. But you'll get there. And DON'T EVER DO IT AGAIN!!!

Heather Dray said...

((hugs)) ((more hugs))

Sirianna said...

As another DS spouse, I get it! It is so hard to adjust for them being gone and then it is as hard to adjust them being back. You are so happy that you are together, so grateful that he is unharmed and then so irritated that your routine and habits that clued you together for a year (or more) are shattered. Nothing but time and patience to cure that! Love your blog and sense humor. Just love it! I laugh out loud often when I read your blog and nothing better than that. Good luck with your move (another "fun" thing to do)...

Nomads By Nature said...

Applauding you both and sending our best wishes as you adjust yet again to finding a new balance.